Denial is often misunderstood when working through an addiction. On the surface, breaking through denial is as simple as recognizing that you have a problem. We always hear that you have to admit to yourself that you have a problem. This is undoubtedly an important step on the path to
There is often confusion for people who are dealing with an addiction of whether or not they should participate in a 12-step support group, or if they should participate in therapy. Both have their potential benefits. 12-step support groups can give you a support system, is more likely to be
Update: This was initially a written response to Dr. Ley and a specific Huffington Post video that he had taken part of. When I initially wrote this article, I was exposed to David Ley’s perspective on sex addiction, and felt it was important to share my perspective on what I
Understanding Pornography Addiction One of the most common misunderstandings in the field of sex addiction is related to the that of pornography addiction regardless of whether it’s online or in magazines like Playboy and Penthouse. Many people are disbelievers that porn can become an addictive behavior, because there is a
Sex addiction is a controversial topic in the addictions field. One of the debates that people have is over whether or not sex can be an addiction at all. The controversy likely originates from a long fought educational battle that was waged to move past the sexual repression of our
If you find out about several secrets of your partner’s sexual behavior, your first inclination may be to confront him about this. There are times when this is absolutely the right thing to do. However, if you don’t approach this confrontation carefully, and you hope that your relationship can heal,
Ambivalence Regarding 12 Step Support Updated April 11, 2022 Whether you’re dealing with a substance abuse problem or sexual compulsivity problem, you’ll have to contend with whether or not you should engage in a 12 step support program. Groups such as Alcoholics Anonymous (AA), Crystal Meth Anonymous (CMA), Sex and
Illusions of Past Perfections When Dealing with Betrayal After the discovery of a betrayal, you can go through a whole series of turbulent feelings and beliefs. Some experience extreme anger, sadness, or depression. While others may go into denial. One of the common things that can happen with betrayal and
Being a Partner of Someone Who has a Compulsive Sexuality Problem As someone who facilitates a group practice in Dallas that focuses heavily on helping people with addictions, I see the impact that addictions can have on family members and especially the partner of a sex addict. Sadly, partners of