How to Cope with Valentine’s Day After Discovering an Affair
How to Cope with Valentine’s Day After Discovering an Affair Most people consider Valentine’s Day to be the official holiday of love and romance. But, it can be one of the worst times of the year if ...
How Couples Therapy Helps Heal Relationships After Cheating
How Couples Therapy Helps Heal Relationships After Cheating Have you recently cheated on your spouse and currently experience deep remorse? Did you know that it can be traumatizing for both the partn ...
Gaslighting Makes the Real Unreal
Gaslighting Makes the Real Unreal Gaslighting is a term that is used for someone who is being lied to, but also convinced that their reality isn't actually real. This term is commonly associated with ...
When Do We Just Get to Trusting Again?
When Do We Just Get to Trusting Again? Whether a couple has dealt with a single affair, or they have worked through multiple episodes of cheating, there can be a lasting barrier. Each member in the r ...
Cheating and Infidelity Recovery
Cheating and Infidelity Recovery Cheating and infidelity commonly lead to relationship failure. This video is meant to be a balanced perspective on considerations for both people in the relationshi ...
Is It Possible to Recover After an Affair?
Is It Possible to Recover After an Affair? The short answer is "yes". Many relationships work through and survive an affair. Many even learn how to thrive after it's over. However, in that time immed ...
How to End an Affair
How to End an Affair Do you know how to end an affair? Much like quitting smoking, trying to end an affair is a time of trial and temptation. Unlike nicotine, an affair is something you should quit c ...
5 Steps to Take When Your Spouse Cheats
5 Steps to Take When Your Spouse Cheats You’ve just found out your spouse has been unfaithful. You feel nauseous, hurt, and betrayed. You want to know why. His or her affair is painful to think about ...
Restoring Trust After An Affair
In a previous article I talked about how couples can survive an affair. One major aspect of successful resolution is the restoration of trust. The number one question I’m asked by people recoveri ...
Handling an Emotional Affair
When clients come into couples therapy for an emotional affair, there are many things that have to be taken into consideration within the relationship and within therapy. Emotional affairs are compl ...