
What is Somatic Sex Therapy?
What is Somatic Sex Therapy? It's common for several of my clients to have had various other attempts at working through their sexual dysfunctions. Whether it's erectile dysfunction , vaginismus , or ...

How to Focus on Small Victories When You Feel Stuck
How to Focus on Small Victories When You Feel Stuck It’s not uncommon to feel “stuck” in many different areas of your life. Maybe you’re in a job that doesn’t bring you fulfillment. Maybe your rel ...

The Myth of Good Sex vs. Bad Sex
The Myth of Good Sex vs. Bad Sex I know that some of the sex that you have is good and other sex you could just leave behind. That's not what I'm talking about in this particular post. The myth that ...

Premature Ejaculation and Slowing Down
Premature Ejaculation and Slowing Down Early ejaculation can be extremely distressing for men, and it can be also very frustrating for partners of people who have this as well. However, I have notice ...

Passive Aggressiveness and Belligerence… The Dangerous Pair
Passive Aggressiveness and Belligerence... The Dangerous Pair Several years back, I wrote an article on passive aggressive behavior , and thought it was about time to readdress this from a differen ...

The Hidden Harm of Covert Sexual Abuse
The Hidden Harm of Covert Sexual Abuse Whether it's in trauma therapy or sex addiction recovery , one of the most common things that is in our clients' backgrounds is sexual abuse. When we think of s ...

Does Erectile Dysfunction Mean He is Not Into You?
Does Erectile Dysfunction Mean He is Not Into You? Is it a sexual dysfunction or does it mean he's not attracted to you? This is one of the most common questions I get and misconceptions about erect ...

Body Shame and Sexual Dysfunction
Body Shame and Sexual Dysfunction Many of us have experienced body shame at some point in our lives. We can think we're not fit enough, thin enough, big enough, etc. Can these insecurities lead to se ...

What do Emotions Have to do with Sexual Dysfunction?
What do Emotions Have to do with Sexual Dysfunction? If you watch TV for any length of time, you'll see a commercial for common sexual dysfunctions. You'll see clinics who advertise the use of hormon ...

What to Expect from Sex Addiction Therapy
What to Expect from Sex Addiction Therapy Entering into sex addiction therapy can be one of the most intimidating and vulnerable decisions. Many come into therapy because they are at a crossroads in ...