Giving Sex Therapy the Time it Needs to Work
Giving Sex Therapy the Time it Needs While working on my dissertation, I interviewed 19 sex therapists about what leads to good sex therapy outcomes versus what doesn't. There were several factors th ...
Good Communication Everywhere Else, but With Sex
Good Communication Everywhere Else, but With Sex "We Have Great Communication (But We Don't Talk About Sex)" I have heard this from so many of the couples who have I have worked with in therapy. T ...
What is Somatic Sex Therapy?
What is Somatic Sex Therapy? It's common for several of my clients to have had various other attempts at working through their sexual dysfunctions. Whether it's erectile dysfunction , vaginismus ...
3 Keys on How to Discuss Your Low Sex Drive with Your Partner
3 Keys on How to Discuss Your Low Sex Drive with Your Partner When you have a low sex drive, for whatever reason, it’s important to talk to your partner about it. Openness can influence how your part ...
5 Ways to Respectfully Negotiate Sexual Boundaries
Updated 11/4/23 5 Ways to Respectfully Negotiate Sexual Boundaries Respecting Your Boundaries and Your Partners' Boundaries Sexual intimacy is important in any long-term romantic relationship. But, ...
Sexual Trauma Defined
Sexual Trauma Defined Sexual trauma is a complex concept that describes the lasting impact of a sexual boundary violation. It is defined by its origin and the typical symptoms that survivors can expe ...
Sexual Boundaries and Resentment
Sexual Boundaries and Resentment What are sexual boundaries? Boundaries describe the limits of what we can tolerate emotionally, physically, and mentally. Sexual boundaries describe the things we wa ...
How to Cope When Sexual Dysfunction Creates Fear of Having Sex
How to Cope When Sexual Dysfunction Creates Fear of Having Sex Sexual dysfunction affects people in many ways. We tend to think it’s just a physical problem. But it creates many mental and emotional ...
The Myth of Good Sex vs. Bad Sex
The Myth of Good Sex vs. Bad Sex I know that some of the sex that you have is good and other sex you could just leave behind. That's not what I'm talking about in this particular post. The myth that ...
Delayed Ejaculation: Here’s What It Is and How to Treat It
Delayed Ejaculation: Here’s What It Is and How to Treat It Delayed ejaculation is a frustrating problem for any man to deal with. You may have heard of premature ejaculation , but delayed can be eq ...