How to Add Kink to Your Relationship Without Destroying It
How to Add Kink to Your Relationship Without Destroying It With Mr. Grey’s debut in the movie series, 50 Shades of Grey, kinky sex has become popularized in a way that brings it out of the closet and ...
Relationship Issues: When Does Porn Use Become a Problem?
Relationship Issues: When Does Porn Use Become a Problem? As therapists who work with sex and porn addictions , we work with many couples who struggle with boundaries around porn in the relationshi ...
What do Emotions Have to do with Sexual Dysfunction?
What do Emotions Have to do with Sexual Dysfunction? If you watch TV for any length of time, you'll see a commercial for common sexual dysfunctions. You'll see clinics who advertise the use of hormon ...
Shame and Sexual Dysfunction
Shame and Sexual Dysfunction In our sex therapy work with sexual dysfunctions , we find that shame is not far behind. We are taught that sex should just work. If you love someone and you're attract ...
Love and Lust Don’t Have to Be Opposites
Love and Lust Don't Have to Be Opposites It is common to read articles about "Love versus Lust." However, these things don't have to be on opposite ends of any kind of a spectrum. Love is often consi ...
What to Do When You Waited Too Long to See a Therapist
What to Do When You Waited Too Long to See a Therapist Unfortunately, it's common for people to wait "too long" to take that step of seeking out a therapist. I see this most often with people who are ...
Sexual Healing: What Are the Secrets to Overcoming Erectile Dysfunction?
Sexual Healing: What Are the Secrets to Overcoming Erectile Dysfunction? Erectile Dysfunction (ED) can be an embarrassing condition that proves detrimental to a man’s self-confidence. Even though ...
Treatment for Erectile Dysfunction… Learning to Relax
Treatment for Erectile Dysfunction... Learning to Relax When working with people who are dealing with erectile dysfunction, many of them believe that they easily relax. They report that they approach ...
Should You Share Your Desires for Kink with Your Partner?
Should You Share Your Desires for Kink with Your Partner? Most people have desire that goes beyond what they would actually engage in. Many also have desires that go beyond their relationship agreeme ...
What Leads to Low Sexual Desire?
What Leads to Low Sexual Desire? Low sexual desire can take a relationship that feels hopeful and compatible, and make it feel frustrating and even hopeless. Sometimes there are simple reasons that t ...