These individuals live in consistent and persistent psychic pain that can be debilitating. Depression, anxiety, and volatile moods impact daily functioning. Imposter syndrome is not listed in the Diagnostic Statistical Manual V as a disorder. However, the anecdotal experience of professionals has created several conversations about the phenomenon.
These are a few suggestions to assist with overcoming the barriers created by imposter’s fear:
- Expose your fears: Journaling, talking to support, therapist, partners, and or family about one’s fears can assist with taking the power out of the fear.
- Talk to your critical self: Get to know your imposter. This assists with identifying the imposter’s voice and your authentic self’s voice.
- Inventory your intentions: Examine your motivations, objectives, and fantasies about actions. Are you working to prove to the boss that you can? Or is this work to achieve a personal goal for your future? Working to impress others can fuel the imposter’s fear.
- Live according to your dreams and not what you feel others are saying, believing, and seeing in you: Releasing yourself from the prison of other internal dialogue of what YOU feel that they are saying, believing, and seeing in you is the greatest gift of not living in the imposter’s fear. The relief of anxiety, stress, and depression is life altering.
- Analyze your attributes, celebrate your accomplishments, and believe in your success: Shifting the focus from negative self-talk to affirming and bonding language with self creates a beautiful relationship with you.
- Differentiate between anxiety and the stress of achievement and distress of negative self-talk: As you inventory your thoughts and motivations, embracing the natural occurrence of stress and being mindful of the body’s and mind’s response enables you to develop a natural alarm for dismissing the imposter’s fear.
- Integrate all of you: Viewing yourself as having a professional persona and personal persona can create an unhealthy dichotomy that supports the imposter’s fear. Be authentic
- “Learn to metabolize external validation.” (From “The Empress Has No Clothes” by Joyce M Roche, page 188). This is a powerful statement. Have you met the person who has a difficult time accepting a compliment or negates a compliment with a negative statement about themselves? Learning to say thank you and internalizing the positive is