The Myth of Good Sex vs. Bad Sex
The Myth of Good Sex vs. Bad Sex I know that some of the sex that you have is good and other sex you could just leave behind. That's not what I'm talking about in this particular post. The myth that ...
Premature Ejaculation and Slowing Down
Premature Ejaculation and Slowing Down Early ejaculation can be extremely distressing for men, and it can be also very frustrating for partners of people who have this as well. However, I have notice ...
What Is Vaginismus? – 5 Common Causes and Treatments
What Is Vaginismus? – 5 Common Causes and Treatments Vaginismus is a condition affecting women that causes muscle spasms of the pelvic floor muscles. No matter the cause, it can be very painful for t ...
Does Erectile Dysfunction Mean He is Not Into You?
Does Erectile Dysfunction Mean He is Not Into You? Is it a sexual dysfunction or does it mean he's not attracted to you? This is one of the most common questions I get and misconceptions about erect ...
Body Shame and Sexual Dysfunction
Body Shame and Sexual Dysfunction Many of us have experienced body shame at some point in our lives. We can think we're not fit enough, thin enough, big enough, etc. Can these insecurities lead to se ...
How to Talk to a Partner About Taboo Desires and Explore Kink Without Losing Trust
How to Talk to a Partner About Taboo Desires and Explore Kink Without Losing Trust Talking about sex with your partner is not always easy, even when your desires feel fairly typical. When your fantas ...
Relationship Issues: When Does Porn Use Become a Problem?
Relationship Issues: When Does Porn Use Become a Problem? As therapists who work with sex and porn addictions , we work with many couples who struggle with boundaries around porn in the relationshi ...
What do Emotions Have to do with Sexual Dysfunction?
What do Emotions Have to do with Sexual Dysfunction? If you watch TV for any length of time, you'll see a commercial for common sexual dysfunctions. You'll see clinics who advertise the use of hormon ...
Love and Lust Don’t Have to Be Opposites
Love and Lust Don't Have to Be Opposites It is common to read articles about "Love versus Lust." However, these things don't have to be on opposite ends of any kind of a spectrum. Love is often consi ...
Treatment for Erectile Dysfunction… Learning to Relax
Treatment for Erectile Dysfunction... Learning to Relax When working with people who are dealing with erectile dysfunction, many of them believe that they easily relax. They report that they approach ...