The Myth of Good Sex vs. Bad Sex
I know that some of the sex that you have is good and other sex you could just leave behind. That's not what I'm talking about in this particular post. The myth that I'm talking about is that some par ...
Premature Ejaculation and Slowing Down
Early ejaculation can be extremely distressing for men, and it can be also very frustrating for partners of people who have this as well. However, I have noticed a common trend in my clients who are d ...
What Is Vaginismus? – 5 Common Causes and Treatments
Vaginismus is a condition affecting women that causes muscle spasms of the pelvic floor muscles. No matter the cause, it can be very painful for those who have to deal with it. There are different ...
Does Erectile Dysfunction Mean He is Not Into You?
Is it a sexual dysfunction or does it mean he's not attracted to you? This is one of the most common questions I get and misconceptions about erectile dysfunctions. ED can be caused by some physiolog ...
Body Shame and Sexual Dysfunction
Many of us have experienced body shame at some point in our lives. We can think we're not fit enough, thin enough, big enough, etc. Can these insecurities lead to sexual dysfunctions? Of course they c ...
How to Talk to a Partner About Taboo Desires and Explore Kink Without Losing Trust
Talking about sex with your partner is not always easy, even when your desires feel fairly typical. When your fantasies fall outside the norm, it can be even harder to open up. These conversations mak ...
Relationship Issues: When Does Porn Use Become a Problem?
Relationship Issues: When Does Porn Use Become a Problem? As therapists who work with sex and porn addictions , we work with many couples who struggle with boundaries around porn in the relationshi ...
What do Emotions Have to do with Sexual Dysfunction?
If you watch TV for any length of time, you'll see a commercial for common sexual dysfunctions. You'll see clinics who advertise the use of hormones to "treat" sexual dysfunctions. However, few will a ...
Treatment for Erectile Dysfunction… Learning to Relax
Treatment for Erectile Dysfunction... Learning to Relax When working with people who are dealing with erectile dysfunction, many of them believe that they easily relax. They report that they approach ...
Should You Share Your Desires for Kink with Your Partner?
Most people have desire that goes beyond what they would actually engage in. Many also have desires that go beyond their relationship agreements. Sadly, this can keep people from opening up about non- ...